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A Note Before You Explore...
The resources recommended here were chosen because they’ve spoken truth into places that felt unaddressed—and have helped us or those close to us in meaningful ways. In our estimation, they offer groundbreaking insights from neuroscience, sociology, psychology, and theology—all connected to human flourishing. That said, our recommendations don’t imply we endorse every single idea within them, nor do we claim to have everything perfectly figured out. We invite you to read and listen with a discerning heart.

Also, we are not certified therapists or counsellors, and we certainly value the work that they do. If you discover that our recommended resources are bringing up unresolved trauma, anxiety, depression or distress, we urge you to seek professional help.  We’ve simply curated a collection of the very best things we’ve found that helped transform our lives. Perhaps they can help you as well.

A Note Before You Explore...

The books that are recommended here were chosen because they have helped us (or our peeps), and spoke truth into specific places that were previously unaddressed. Further, in our estimation, these books are filled with groundbreaking neuroscience, sociological research, psychological insights and good theology linked to human flourishing. But by recommending them we are not saying that we necessarily endorse every single piece that’s been written in them. Nor do we suggest that we got everything just right. Read with a discerning heart.

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A Note Before You Explore...

The books that are recommended here were chosen because they have helped us (or our peeps), and spoke truth into specific places that were previously unaddressed. Further, in our estimation, these books are filled with groundbreaking neuroscience, sociological research, psychological insights and good theology linked to human flourishing. But by recommending them we are not saying that we necessarily endorse every single piece that’s been written in them. Nor do we suggest that we got everything just right. Read with a discerning heart.
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The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness
Jonathan Haidt
An eye-opening look at how modern stress rewired our minds—and hands-on strategies for rewiring back toward calm and emotional resilience.
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The Ascent of a Leader: How Ordinary Relationships Develop Extraordinary Character and Influence, by Bill Thrall, Bruce McNicol and Ken McElrath
Bill Thrall, Bruce McNicol, Ken McElrath
We highly recommend this book for anyone influencing others. It shows how character-driven leadership fosters trust, grace, and lasting impact in homes, workplaces, and communities.
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The Body Keeps The Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Bessel Van Der Kolk
Trauma imprints on more than memories—discover how the body holds and heals pain, with science-backed tools for restoring balance and well-being.
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The Book of Forgiving: The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World
Desmond Tutu, Mpho Tutu
Forgiveness can transform both personal wounds and community rifts—this guide lays out a path to release hurt and rebuild trust.
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The Connected Life #113: Deconstructing Your Faith
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
Deconstructing faith can be messy or beautiful. This hopeful episode explores Abi and Justin’s journey, offering grace, humility, and clarity for anyone rethinking their beliefs.
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The Connected Life #136: Stepping Back in the Church
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
Personal conversations about the messy terrain beyond past hurt to healthy faith community you might still crave.
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The Connected Life #137: Brutal Beginnings for Newlyweds (five-part series)
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
Justin and Abi interview Pietze and Johnny about their messy marriage—a raw, hopeful journey from shutdown and dysfunction to reclamation and freedom.
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The Connected Life #150: 10 Signs of Wholeness
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
What does wellness look and feel like? Justin and Abi explore the markers of inner health with warmth, humor, and thoughtful personal insight.
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The Connected Life #169: The Power of Embracing Our Messiness
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
Vulnerability can feel risky but holds deep power—discover how leaning into our imperfections can strengthen your relationships and foster genuine empathy.
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The Connected Life #181: What Am I Feeling?
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
This episode features honest conversation among men about testosterone, emotional intelligence, and vulnerability—offering hope that feelings aren't weakness and authentic connection is possible and safe.
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The Connected Life #233: Creating an Emotionally Healthy Family (four-part series)
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
Justin and Abi join Johnny and Pietze to explore how emotionally safe homes help kids thrive. They blend humour, neuroscience, and honest parenting stories to give real-life insights.
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The Connected Life #282: Developing a Healthy Sense of Self
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
A strong sense of self is key to healthy relationship. Honoring my voice prevents control, fosters honesty, and nurtures connection without self-abandonment.
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The Connected Life #55: Keys to Becoming A Great Friend
Justin and Abi Stumvoli
Learn core habits that make for lasting friendships—this episode shares actionable steps to become a more dependable, supportive friend.
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The Furious Longing of God
Brennan Manning
Brennan Manning is a recovering alcoholic and former Franciscan priest. He offers a love story for those burdened by heavy religion, those undermined by self-hate, or those who feel they can never measure up.
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The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You’ve Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended
Sheila Wray Gregoire
Gregoire’s research exposes harmful church teachings and offers a biblical vision of mutual, passionate and healing intimacy for couples.
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The Heart of the Fight: A Couple’s Guide to Fifteen Common Fights
Judith & Bob Wright
Dive into fifteen typical relationship conflicts—unpack what each really signals and follow practical advice to turn tension into deeper connection.
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The Love Prescription: 7 Days to More Intimacy, Connection and Joy
John M. Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman
Learn seven evidence-based habits from John and Julie Gottman’s decades of marital research to transform your marriage and strengthen every relationship in your life.
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The Marriage Lab: That’s What She Said
Jenna & Aaron Zint
We often misinterpret our partner’s words, filling in gaps with assumptions and with old pain. This episode offers a tool to reframe those stories and build real-time connection.
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The Oprah Podcast: Oprah and Psychiatrist Bruce Perry Give You The Tools to Heal Your Childhood Trauma
Oprah Winfrey & Bruce Perry
Winfrey and Perry share stories of healing sparked by 'What Happened to You?' revealing how trauma awareness transforms relationships, parenting, and justice.
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The Place We Find Ourselves #101: Talking to Your Children about Sex (two-part series)
Adam Young
Adam Young and Bethany Robbins reveal how parents’ unaddressed sexual shame creates communication gaps, leaving kids lonely. This podcast offers hope for healthier, open, shame-free sex talks.