The Connected Life #137: Brutal Beginnings for Newlyweds (five-part series)

Justin and Abi Stumvoli
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Podcast hosts Justin and Abi interview their friends Pietze and Johnny about the messy beginning of their marriage and the pain they walked through. This story is raw and hopeful. It is the story of a hard marriage and the steps that were taken to move past the shut-downs and dysfunctions to redeem the relationship.  

I (James) commend this podcast to anyone struggling to make their marriage work. If you want to hear your own pain in someone else’s story and be empowered to make joyful choices in a sometimes agonizing journey, this episode is realistic – and liberating. Remember it is part of a series and a lot of the practical “ah ha’s” come in later episodes.

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